She didn’t want someone to clean her gutters and keep her fridge stocked. She wanted a man who did this for himself because in her eyes its a mark of maturity and shared values.
Where did I say sex was disgusting and men should be shamed for wanting it? It’s the entitlement to women’s bodies which is disgusting. Just because a women doesn’t want to sleep with you personally doesn’t mean she’s anti-sex. She just doesn’t find you attractive.
As for sex as the basis of a relationship, believe it or not some women have the audacity to want a partner who sees them as more than a sperm receptacle. If that’s all you want then good for you, but don’t get all bent out of shape because a lot of women reject what you have to offer.