The fact that you refer to girls as young as 14 as 'women' is very telling. Do you consider 14 year old boys to be 'men?'
These are not women, they're children. They're incapable of understanding the real consequences of their decisions, which is why we have laws to protect them. It doesn't matter what they say or do, or how they behave. These grown men knew they were taking advantage of them.
By claiming many girls "know exactly what they are doing," and conflating girls with women, you're nothing but an apologist for child abuse.