Janine H
1 min readMar 2, 2021

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You wrote this about me without knowing a single thing about me apart from this exchange where all I've done is call you on your bullshit and state the obvious, which is that you have an extremely limited, unnuanced view of gender relations:

'Why would a man want to deal with you when you are so clearly willing to fly off the handle and be really, really cruel on a dime?

The answer of course is, he's horny so he puts up with your abuse and even tells you your amazing because that's what you want to hear. Stop and thing for a minute how much of your view of yourself is colored by men telling you what you want to hear because they want sex.'

But you expect me to believe you don’t have this view of all women? You also stated that the author’s boyfriend was ‘already paying for sex,’ without knowing anything at all about their relationship, implying that you think all relationships have the same power dynamics, which are men as victims of manipulative women, driven by sexual needs to put up with women’s ‘abuse.’

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Janine H
Janine H

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